wedding songs...S.O.S

i'm in the middle of collecting suitable and aprropriate songs to be played on the big day...i don't plan any DJ to entertain my guests cos i'm just not interested with a person talking on and on and sometimes merapu for the sake of talking and Deejaying...but at the same time i don't want to bore my guests if the atmostphere becomes very suram and sunyi. hanya suara orang2 bercakap and accompany by the sounds of pinggan mangkuk and cawan2 while the guests are eating. agak boring kan?? so i thought, some wedding related songs would be appropriate to make the day feels so alive, betul tak? at least a little entertainment would be no harm rite~

but then i don't want the typical wedding songs to be played during the day, cos honestly i feel weird..kelakar la bila dengar lagu2 kat kenduri kahwin..."pengantin baru.....duduk bersanding...tersimpul malu...bla..bla..bla.." so i figure, i could change the normal typical wedding songs kat kenduri2 orang kahwin and replace by songs that would suit and please to my ears.. ( again, i know i penting diri,..hihi)

i'm trying to list down songs that are romantic, very soothing like the Indon songs and Malay songs and some english songs too..but i'm stuck..tak tahu lagu apa lagi nak cari...i'd be really nice if anyone could recommend me more tittle...

currectly, i handed the job to collect as many songs as possible to my niece since she is free now..hopefully i'll approve all her songs selection and we can burn into CD. if not, i will have to start all over again searching for the lagu2 idaman kalbu... ;p

p/s: loving the song "sempurna" by Andra & the Backbone and many of the Ada Band songs! very soothing indeed