THE BIRTH STORY OF MY lil' Maryam - PART 2 (final episode)

OKEH, SAMBUNG~

The nurse siap tepuk2 pipi i suruh bangun jangan lena baby dah nak keluar! 

Too bad i really gave up cos i was so damn tired...i told them to help me...help my baby out.(GILA CAM DRAMA)

So, the next step the nurses started to pull out some sort of besi apa tah on my right and left side of the legs and they hanged both of my legs and ikat kat besi tuh...i hanya melihat dengan confused sekali...”apa hal lak depa ni gantung kaki aku lak...” ati berkata-kata dalam mamai2.

Pastu Rizal kata doc suruh nurse pasang “PUMP”  

And the doctor asked me to give it a hard and long push for one last try and i did.

It turned out the doctor had to vacuum  my baby out and with a blink of an eye, out the baby came! 

Phewwww...legaaaa..i saw the baby when the doctor said “ok tengok ni,dah keluar, tengok baby apa ni?” he asked...i just geleng2 kepala cos i couldn’t focus at all..

Straight away saja baby keluar doctor Anuar terus azankan,iqamat and syahadahkan baby i sambil potong tali pusat baby, so efficient! I thought...and he passed the baby to the nurse to clean her up. I could hear the baby screaming... ;)

Then Rizal went off to see the cleaning process and wanted to do the second round of iqamat.

The next thing i remembered, doctor said he would put me to sleep. I guess that followed by process menjahit la kot. nasib baik pengsan,so tak tau la apa jadi masa jahit menjahit tu...wallahualam.

I woke up alone in the labour room. It was dark, i had no idea what was the time. The nurse came to clean me up, put the maternity pad on, change me into clean hospital gown and stuff. And wheeled me into my room. 

Ohh, Rizal was there with a new pair of jeans and shirt. I heran tengok.bila masa dia ni tukar baju? Skang pukui berapa? I asked. Rupanya dah pukul 7.30 pagi....rupanya dah lebeh 3 jam la i pengsan.

As i entered the room, they brought me breakfast and i rested some more.

I am so thankful Rizal was there throughout the entire process and took great care of me. My husband yang angkat i, bawak i ke toilet, help me clean myself, changed my pad, changed my clothes, suap makan, minum, EVERYTHING! He even slept in the hospital with me. Senang keja nurse PMC...heheh...Alhamdulillah...sangat bersyukur ada suami sepertinya.

So, i guess, this is my birthing story..everbody has a different story and experience. I am so thankful sebab i sakit nak melahirkan baby Maryam sekejap saja. Pukul 11.30 malam sakit, pukul 4.38 pagi dah besalin. Alhamdulillah...i tak rasa lama pun.rasa cam semuanya terlalu cepat untuk i.tak sempat nak digest. hahaha..

Macam tak pecaya i dah jadi mak orang! Itu saja yang bole i gambarkan perasaan i sampai hari ni... ;)

Ohh, since a few of our friends  wonder how it feels during the VE or SELUKAN tu..my answer is, Alhamdulillah, TIDAK SAKIT AT ALL. ;) i guess when u are in so much pain menahan contractions yang bagai nak patah tulang temulang rasanya, SELUKAN feels nothing to u..hahahah...my contractions were short but sangat2 memenatkan tahan sakit tu. I couldn’t focus what they actually did during the selukan tu, i saw they put on the hospital glove and gel on their fingers kot,then they would ask my permission to do the VE. They were polite and would do it carefully and gently...bukan main hentam saja ya. Since my doctor lelaki, dia tak buat selukan tu banyak2 kali. Only once. Maybe menjaga adab kesopanan kot. Masa i tengah push, push tu pun he would not look directly to my private part. Dia bediri di sebelah i di hujung kaki.skali skala saja dia akan jenguk ke bawah. ;) sopan kan?? ;)

 

Masa diseluk tu boleh rasa macam jari depa tu masuk sangat ke dalam. Before nak seluk they would ask u to inhale. Tarik nafas dalam2 and tahan. So kena la ikot instruction tu betul2, insyaAllah tak sakit.

During selukan tu depa akan bagitau la cervik kita dah buka berapa cm and cervik lembut or tidak.if lembut means ok la memang nk besalin la tak lama lagi sbb dia buka dengan baik. If keras, i think time tu la kot kena masuk ubat bagi cervik open properly. 

Alhamdulillah, i had a normal labor without any pain killer, epidural or what-so-ever as i  imagined awal2 dulu. Sebab i imagined the worst situation ever. But it turned out to be an easy situation kot. I mean senang dari segi menanggung kesakitan yang tidak lama. Push pun 30 minutes saja and i gave up. Doctor tak biarkan i lama2 keep pushing maybe sebab i terlalu penat.dia tak mau paksa i.

Everyone will experience different  stages of pain during the labor . some are blessed with easy and fast labor but some are not.  Trust me, even if u have a really long and hard or crazy pain of labor, all worth it when u finally see the baby.

If i can do it, anyone can too. Sebab if semua orang kenal i, i memang takot tersangat2 bab nak beranak ni.heheheh...when the time cames, kita dah tak fikir apa dah...kecuali banyak2 zikir and harap baby cepat keluar saja.apa depa nak buat kt kita, buat pi la...janji semua selamat. ;)

GOOD LUCK TO ALL PREGGERS!! CAIYOKKKKK~

Maryam,day 16 - teman mom pegi KL 2 days ago sebab mom ada keja sikit.

this is her most favourite sleeping position - haihhh..budak2 zaman sekarang...