Wednesday, June 16, 2010

nak kahwen, hantaran dah settle kah??


hantaran~ *sigh* when it comes to creativity, i am hopeless...i can only draw a straight line perfectly (using a ruler that is) but never a perfectly round shape..that's how hopeless i am. just to give u the idea... ;(

i always wanted a beautiful decorated hantaran but i can never envision how i want it to be. i can only point to what i like and if u ask me how i would like it to be, i just dun know...all i know is i want my hantaran to be very elegant and sweet and romantic looking - sounds like a lot kan??

i'm at the stage where i have to consider the design of my hantaran...since we are not hiring any profesionals to do our hantaran, we will doi it on our own.

not only i will do the hantaran for the groom's side, but my very own hantaran pun i'll do it myself - gila kuasa kan?? heheh...from the beginning my mak seems to oppose this idea as she is afraid we might cause some unwanted "cakap-cakap belakang" she said takot nanti apa pandangan orang sebab segalanya pihak my family yang buat..but i did explain to her that i have no choice.

okay the designs?? NO IDEA...i just hope my sister can take this responsibility and will come out with something..cos seriously, i cannot sit and discuss this part cos my mind is totally blank...if i see the samples of hantaran, insyaAllah i can say which one is beutiful which one is not. i pray really hard that this issue will resolve soon, so i can be at peace. cos rite now, i'm a little nervous - no, i am turning into a nervous wreck

since we're doing the hantaran for the both side, all i know i they MUST LOOK DIFFERENT. i'm afraid the designs of my hantaran will look the same with groom's hantaran... =(

at first i was so damn sure of having fresh flower hantaran since it's the in thing nowadays kan...but i'm no expert...my sis cakap the flower arrangements has to be done last minute if it's fresh...my concern is that my nikah insyaAllah will be held in the morning...around 10 am. sempat ka if they arrange it that morning itself?? i mean can't it be done the night before??? sesiapa ada pandangan bolehlah dilontarkan di comment section. hehe TQ

okay, last week balik penang ada jelajah SSF. it's 5 minutes away from my house ja...i like going there sbb bila masuk ja..uhhh syok~ kan? sampai kat top floor bahagian bridal tu, ada la tengok2 contoh hantaran and we asked about the price of their workmanship if they do hantaran...erkk..mahal..



masa snap tis pic my nephew cakap ehh tak boleh amik gambar...tengok2 ada sign camera not allowed..tapi muka SA tu cam selamber ja..so i snap a few more...hehe

i love bling2 that SSF offers..sbb designs bling2 dia lawa2 compared to other shops...namapak mewah...i checked out a few shops yang jual bling2 gedik2 tu..tapi semua fail to meet my demand..cewah..hihih..kat SSF jugak yg lawa...but mahal la..1 pack RM128 ++ jenuh jugak tu..kalau nak pakai more than 1 pack...

to make matters a bit difficult, my area tak banyak kedai barang2 hantaran..ada 3 kedai ja..tapi erkk...
maybe i have to follow my sis sugestion to go back to ipoh again..sana memang belambak...possibbly way cheaper

6 comments:

PurPLe LaDy AiFA said...

SSF penang dekat mane ek?

bgtw, during my engagement aritu pon my family buat the both side punya hantaran.huhu tp ikt gak ckp org cmne kan..

NoRr said...

kat Taman Inderawasih...kat seberang perai..turun flyover tu.besar jugak.. ;p well, tak salah la kan kita buat semuanya..ehehehe...

PurPLe LaDy AiFA said...

ohhh okay.. nnti i try tgk.. hehe

NoRr said...

aifa, u from penang ya...=)

idayusof said...

hai Nor!

u ckp pasal fresh flower boleh buat the night before or not eh? my answer is totally YES! hantaran kite dulu buat malam sebelum nikah. nikah ari sabtu, buat hantaran ari jumaat. bunga beli ari khamis. hantaran ari ahad tu chantek lg. yang penting, span basah mesti bebtul basah. =)

NoRr said...

hi ida! TQ for the answer,nanti i nak try bagitau my sisters benda ni...cos they kinda skeptical a bit sbb masa tunang hari tu pun sirih jungjung buat pagi hari betunang tu...i punya neves, tuhan ja tahu..hihih..cos i dun like a very very last minute thing cos anything can go wrong or rite...